在瑞典移民如何和瑞典人相處呢
最近有許多向瑞典移民的人都說在瑞典的人對人有些冷漠,今天我就說說在瑞典給怎么給瑞典人相處。
Recently there are many told Swedish immigrants are the people in Sweden for some cold, today I will talk about to how to Swedish people in Sweden.
瑞典是一個人口稀少的國家,擁有漫長的海岸線、廣闊的森林和大量的湖泊。它是世界上最北端的國家之一。就陸地面積而言,瑞典與西班牙、泰國或美國的加利福尼亞州相當。瑞典的國境線自 1905 年以來就沒有發生過變化,該國在兩次世界大戰中都保持中立,而且自1814 年以來就沒有發生過任何戰爭。所以說瑞典是比較愛好和平的,可能回有人說著也代表不了什么啊。
Sweden is a sparsely populated country, has a long coastline, vast forests and a large number of lakes. It is one of the most northern countries in the world. In terms of land area, Sweden and Spain, Thailand or the United States of California. Sweden's borders, there is no change has occurred since 1905, the country remained neutral in the two world wars, and since 1814, there is no any war. So said Sweden is relatively peaceful, may back to someone doesn't seem to stand for what.
其實大多數瑞典人的內心是很善良的。可是很多外國人到了瑞典的時候還是感覺到瑞典人的冷,這種冷不是不熱情,而是是一種走不進的距離感和疏離感。他們很安靜,很有禮貌,文質彬彬,你遇到困難也會伸出援手,可是卻無法擁有大伙一起喝酒,大塊吃肉的暢快感。永遠不要想象可以和瑞典的朋友好到穿一條褲子,他們從小自我,獨立,好的教養意識讓他們大多數的時候都表現得素質高雅,至少在公共場合的時候是這樣的,沒有誰有野蠻或者無賴的舉動。幾十年的老鄰居相處得很和睦,每天一起喝咖啡,卻可能永遠不知道各家其中的各色隱事,個人隱私,久遠的故事。無論怎樣個人的選擇都會被普遍尊重, 比如同性戀,比如終身不嫁,終身未娶,除了涉及人品的行為沒有人會對別人的生活說三道四,當然如果是不道德的行為還是會被大部分人鄙視的。
In fact, most swedes heart is very kind. But many foreigners still feel the cold swedes in Sweden, the cold is not warm, but it is a kind of can't walk into the sense of distance and alienation. They are very quiet, very polite, gentle, you meet with difficulties will also lend a helping hand, but can't have everyone together to drink, with large pieces of meat. Can never imagine and Sweden friend to wear a pair of trousers, they grew up self, independent, good education consciousness let them behave elegant quality most of the time, at least in public, no one has a brutal or rogue. Decades of elderly neighbors get along very harmonious, together to drink coffee every day, may never know what each of these various untitled, personal privacy, long story. No matter how personal choice is widely respected, such as homosexuality, such as lifelong not marry, lifelong not marry, in addition to involving personal character behavior no one would comment on someone else's life, of course if it's immoral behavior will despised by most people.
可能有些女性說怕在國外會有性騷擾,但在瑞典就不會出現這個問題,在瑞典,那里的男人大多數很靦腆,除非他們喝過酒才會和女孩子搭訕,否則無論你多么漂亮迷人,風情萬種在瑞典的街頭都沒有男人的注視或者口哨,抑或嬉皮笑臉的搭訕。街上的人都行色匆匆,除了夏天明媚的陽光下碰到陌生人會打個招呼,或者善意的微笑,多數的時候瑞典人的臉上都掛著距離感。
Could have said some women fear abroad sexual harassment, but won't appear the problem in Sweden, in Sweden, where the most shy man, unless they drank wine and girls, otherwise no matter how beautiful your amorous feelings street in Sweden are no man gaze or whistle, or hippies. As the people in the street in a hurry, in addition to the summer sunshine met strangers will say hello, smile or goodwill, most of the time the swedes distance are hung on her face.
在中國這個人情社會待習慣后,跑到瑞典去卻不會有這么多的人情世故,因為在瑞典,沒有人情事故,沒有趨炎附勢,都是淡淡地來淡淡地去。沒有腐敗,沒有綠燈,一切都按原則和規則進行,少了很多人情味也少了很多虛與委蛇。
In China, the human society after being used, to go to Sweden to won't have so much worldly wisdom, because in Sweden, there is no experience, no snobbery, are lightly to lightly. There is no corruption, there is no green light, everything is going according to the principles and rules, much less appreciate it a lot less pretended.
對于以上這些就是在向瑞典移民后會感覺到瑞典人對外人比較冷漠的原因,希望對您在瑞典生活有一定的幫助。
For these is in the Swedish immigrants feel after Swedish foreign people cool, hope life in Sweden has certain help to you.

